I know that’s not what your saying. Your saying its not just me its everyone right now. Every man. Me included because I’m a man. OK I get it. Its kind of a big box to work my way out of. Especially when the answer is probable that to get out of the box, I need to stay in the box. The more I try to prove or show that I’m a good guy the less likely it is that I’m a good guy.
So this is my response. This is the thing I would like you to think of about me when you compare me to anyone else.
What had I ever asked you to give me compared to what everyone else has asked you to give them WIFM. What’s in it for me. What have I demanded. Because I think the answer is, nothing. I’ve never asked you for anything. The closest I have ever come is desiring to be near you and to hold your hand, which I believe comforts you.
I know that you will point to many things like phone calls or texts etc. But I have never abused any of those except when I have been worried that you were unsafe. I’m sorry it is so hard for you right now. Its hard for me too. Especially since it does not have to be hard. It could be easy just like it is when were are together. Its always easy then.