“The Asshole” Abused my Catnip, He has been abusing her from years and he always blames her for his actions. He belittles and berates her for his short comings and he treats her very poorly and I hate that fucker because he somehow over the many years he has been abusing her, convinced her that she is the problem or that she is some kind of problem or something. I don’t know exactly what, but she is amazing and deserves the best, not what she gets. This is a letter to her. She is amazing. He will end up in prison.
As you know, I think about you. I was thinking of the day you picked up your truck. I don’t know what you were going through or the depth of it, and I wouldn’t want to take any of that from you. But I could see your pain and that it was deep.
Please don’t be upset if you already know what I’m going to say and please don’t rebuke it with that little voice in your head that sometimes rebukes you. I want to say you didn’t deserve anything that happened to you. You did nothing wrong, and none of it was your fault.
You did nothing wrong sweet heart and I say that as a man who knows and understands you. You did nothing to deserve what happened to you. And there is nothing wrong with you. And what happened to you is shocking by any standard. You are beautiful when you cry and you have earned every tear and sorry, but you didn’t deserve how you were treated.
You are beautiful to give of yourself so completely and to work so hard and do everything for that love. You are amazing and it was not your fault.
Thank you Princess for opening your heart and for letting me love you. You are truly beautiful.
Love Papa Bear