At one point after “The Asshole” beat her up she moved in with her parents and she told me I could write her there. I asked if she was sure it would not cause a problem and she said she was sure it would not. But it did. He mom noticed that she received letters from me and when she found out who they were from it became an issue.
Apparently that was several months ago but she just now told me. That’s what the deal with going to her sister’s was about in my last post. Her family knows that I write her, they know that they are love letters and they don’t like it, so now she hides me and my letters from them.
We also spoke this week about me seeing her at her job. She asked me five different times in the last two weeks to come see her at work. Just to drop in and say hi a couple of times and twice to pick her up for lunch. The last couple of times I said I though it would be better if I didn’t.
I told her that I didn’t want to make work a difficult place for her. She said that none of the people at her work are in her life outside of work and she didn’t care what they though and that she still wanted me to come see her.
She had also asked me to write her at her work, this was about two months ago. She said she always picked up the mail and that it would not be a problem.
I told her that one of the women she works with had noticed me each of the times I had come into her work and that the last time she gave me the “Whats this 50-year-old guy’s deal and why is he seeing a 30-year-old woman, Look” Catnip said she didn’t care and that she still wanted me to come in. I told her that I said that I though it would be better if I didn’t come to her work. I said that I would love to see her and meet her places but that I thought it would be better for her if I didn’t come to her work.
She protested a bit and said it was not a big deal. Then told me a story. So guess what? One day she didn’t get the mail! The office girls picked up the mail and they just went though all of it opening each piece like regular business mail. Then apparently one of them came to her office with my letter in her hand apologizing and blushing and said
“Were so sorry we didn’t mean to open this. We didn’t read it at all, we just opened it and when we saw that it was personal we closed it and put it back in the envelope” She told them it was ok and not to worry about it.
Something kind of like this happened once with her roommates a few years ago. They saw one of her love letters from me in her mail box and teased her about it. But that time she liked the fact that she was getting love letters and the other girls in her apartment were not. But I think in both cases, she likes being the woman getting love letters. I want to send them to her but I need to think about it a bit.
She said she still wants to get them and that she wants me to still send them because all they could know if that she gets love letters. They could not know who they were from. She didn’t say it but I thing that secretly she likes the others knowing she is getting them.
If anyone had a recommendaton or opinon I would be greatful to hear any and all of them.